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Whats for Dinner?

Posted in Important Posts with tags , , , , , on 08/14/2013 by Keona-Mlh

o I am always trying to figure out what to cook since I really don’t like cooking during the summer months. Its to hot, and I feel like a slave in the kitchen sweating and what not. I figure I go with the basics; chicken, potatoes, green beans, cornbread and lemonade.

So for the past day couple of days I have had some chicken wings marinating in a concoction of honey, balsamic vinegar, hot sauce, marjoram, thyme, rosemary sea slat and black pepper. It smelled so good when I opened the lid. I decided to throw them in the crock pot. I sprayed the pot than placed red potatoes at the bottom and then placed the wings on top. Put it on high and in about two and a half hours I will check the chicken and then poor some bbq sauce in there. I will probably make a pot of rice as well. My mother gave me her rice cooker as she as about 12 of those things around the house.

I made lemonade this morning and will make the cornbread later on when the Mr arrives.

Right now I have the sauce from the wings and the shrimp mixed together and in the fridge. I am thawing out some steak and short beef ribs, and going to marinate the steak in the sauce and come up with a rub for the ribs.

I really need a few more crock pots. It is so easy to put dinner on in the morning and only have to clean up one dish.

The Hood Pioneer

Posted in Important Posts with tags , , , , , , , on 08/07/2013 by Keona-Mlh

So I’m trying to make all my foods at home and stray away from processed foods.

Since I’m now a homemaker, and focusing on school I will make the most of my husband’s income and keep us with money and low bills. Luckily I have money coming in, but I want to be savvy and start saving again.

So my mother got me addicted to The Pioneer Woman on the food network. If you haven’t watched her, please do so. You will never cook the same again. So I’m going to give it a try. I cook very well, just check out my husband’s mid section lol, and in not thick from McDonald’s lol.

So yesterday I decided I’m going to spend my check on groceries. I ordered meat, 25 pounds of: Scrapple, various breakfast sausages, ham, chicken legs, quarters, breast, thighs, ribs, ground beef and steak; 8 pound of seafood, 5lb of frozen fries, and over a hundred bucks on staples like rice, instant mashed potatoes, peppers, fruit, vegetables, canned beans, potatoes, yams, and baking supplies. And of course I have to by the chips for my husband’s lunch, the drinks and his kool-aid lol.

So the meats came from Girards Meat Market on 47 and Girard Ave. Now my order was delivered six hours late, because a driver called out at the last minute. So you know he got an ear full. It is a Muslim store and I will always by meats from there. Reason being, my grandfather is Jewish and raised us on eating Kosher. The meat is just fresh and always ground in store. That’s one thing I got from granddaddy is to always buy my meats Kosher. He said I don’t give a damn about your religious preference just by Kosher. So grandma did, ma does and I do.  So when I got my order I loved it. Fresh ground meat. Reminds me of my granddaddy’s restaurant he had in DC on K st, Sunset Diner. I miss that spot.

Any way I know I’m about to get my cook on and be Shayla Crocker up in this bitch lol. Think I spelled it right. I’m not checking either lol.

So I’m going to go through my cook books, food magazines, and my vegan books to see what I’m going to be fixing. I do want to make some banana bread and a pound cake for sure. Going to be making my own taco spice, hot sauce, and bbq rubs. I love dry bbq. That wet shit pisses me off lol. And I have a crock pot, yeah that baby will be used when I make those short beef ribs for my husband. The Carnivore lol.

So trust and believe I will update you and share ALL.

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How are you Gay and Homophobic?

Posted in Important Posts with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on 08/04/2013 by Keona-Mlh

This is something that has been made painfully obvious over the past few weeks. And I’m pretty sick of the dumb ass people who are bigots in their fucking community.

And it’s always which these raggedy, ratchet ass bitches! Man I don’t think the males have this many problems.

What is a lesbian? A female who likes females sexually right.
What is a bisexual? A male or female that likes both sexes right.
What is gay? A male who likes other men sexually right.
What is Pansexual? A person who is attractive to people no matter their gender right?
What’s a transgender? A person who’s born one sex but feels that they are the opposite sex right.

WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!

WHO THE FUCK CARES WHAT THEY ARE!!!! They are people who are looking for that special person to love. Am I right?! Fuck yeah I’m right.

Over the past couple weeks I have seen the most ignorant shit in the so called “lesbian” community.

Who the fuck are you to call bisexual people bi nasty. Half you bitches look like Dr. Dre and Jerome from Martin. Walking around dressing like a dude, with a big ass fake dick in your pants, with your titties tied down. Man just admit it. You want to be a man so much that you are doing everything in your power to look like a nigga. In order to please your woman, you need a dick am I right? Because apparently your tongue and fingers isn’t good enough for her. Makes you feel a certain type of way doesn’t it? Be real with yourself. Now there are those androgynous boys and girls that are just fucking sexy as hell and they don’t discriminate. They are just them, and they are proud. They don’t judge.

I, for one hate these fake ass people in the LGBT community who have a problem with bisexual, transsexual and transgender people. What the fuck is your problem!! Are you mad that they are so true to themselves that they are not ashamed to be who they are intended to be. You dumb ass mother fuckers always hollering about God this and God that. But don’t you realize your God hate gays. Well at least that’s what is taught in your beautiful bible right? How can you possibly be a part of a religion that seeks to promote hate about you. They don’t want you to marry or have kids. Yet you go to church faking the funk, knowing damn well that if your God said don’t do it, your going to go to hell because you disobeyed him. And how many of y’all now for a fact that the church choir director is gay. Come on now, be real with yourselves people. If you are offended, then oh well…keep it moving.

I have a friend who I consider my sister and she’s transgender m2f and she is the most beautiful person in the world. She fights for rights, for all homosexuals to be equally. Yet I see the same dumb ass hoes who discriminate. Please. The Black gay community is probably the fucking worst community out there. There are simply too many bigots than it is of those who believe in equality for all. That’s why as a race we will never move forward. All we do is criticized, and discriminate. Against our own FUCKING PEOPLE!!!!!

What the hell has happened.

Think about all the females who have kids, and now they are gay. We’re they always gay, perhaps. And they probably had to conform for family or maybe other personal reasons. That doesn’t make them confused, that makes them brave for finding their voice and taking the steps to be happy with who they are. There are those who still can’t come out. And they don’t need to see the negativity or hatred in the communities that they are looking to for strength. Guys like guys. Chicks like chicks. Studs like studs. Fems like fems. Transgender like transgender. Transsexuals like transsexuals. Pansexual like Pansexual. And then we can have a myriad of combinations within those right there. Who gives a fuck what your preference is. You bitches are disgusting. How can you be so homophobic of your own people. Are you mad that you can’t grow your own dick, and that you have to keep buying yours on sell (thanks D for that one). Or are you mad that others are more comfortable than you are in, and with their sexuality, and with whom they can find attractiveness with, that you have to hate.

Or are you made that your homosexual sisters and brothers are braver than you. Can tell the whole world who they are, and how they will not be labeled or discriminated against.

And it’s only the real nigga looking bitches, but the ignorant as females who like playing with women who are homophobic.

We will never understand why people are like they are. But I know one thing is for sure. We are made in the creators image. You believe that don’t you? So you think your God is straight. Please I’m pretty sure your God has gotten fucked in the ass and sucked a few dicks in his day and felt nothing wrong with it. And he made you after him. That is why homosexuality appears in various species throughout the world. We are made after him. Only his people have decided to spread a message of hate instead of his message of love like he teaches. Remember his word was written down and interpreted by those who see a different vision than he did. It was written by man so it is flawed. Man is flawed, remember that.

Half you chicks hollering about not liking bisexual women, are the same bitches playing with your pussy thinking about a big dick. And where it’s either on another female, a dude, strapped to a chick or fucking you.

You females with seventeen baby daddies who are now gay, yeah right. I bet you take a look at your stud and that bitch look like your last baby daddy with a thick strap on for you. You just don’t have to worry about being pregnant again. I may be right, I may be wrong. But I bet you in right a good percentage too. Let’s not forget about the females who leave their stud because she decides to become more feminine. That means you are attractive to the male qualities of her, and not her as a whole.

I love women. I have since I was a child. I love men. I’m married to a man, and I am in a relationship with a couple. I’m poly and that is a whole nother blog post. But I can also love a man who likes both sexes, or a person who is neither sex yet both. It didn’t matter what the fuck is between the legs. The only thing that should matter is what is in the heart. Why would I date a women with a moustache and fake dick when I have my husband with a real one. Come on people. If me and my husband and couple part today than it happens. I will then get myself together and fall in love again. It could be a woman, it could be man, it could be a m2f/f2m, or a chick with a dick. It doesn’t matter because the heart and mental connection is what draws me. Not the outside persona.

And just because you been a lesbian for 40 years doesn’t mean you don’t get fucked by a real dick, or fuck a guy in the ass. It just means your outward appearance your all about women. Remember people lie and hide. There are some females who only love women, and want nothing to do with anything phallic shaped. There are women who love the mascualine qualities of both men and women, women who like the feminine qualities of both men and women. Who are we to judge? Only one that judges is God. And I am quite sure he isn’t among us.

How many of you are true to your sexuality?
How many of you are true to who you are as a person?
How many of you are happy with your life, content with who you are?
How many of you actually know what you are?
And how many of you are going to deny this author’s rightful opinion, because your a bigoted bitch who’s confused and mad at those who are happy with themselves inside and out?
Or maybe you are offended because of the religious aspect of the article and discounted everything that was said?

The Black LGBT community needs to educate with in its own ranks. We need to stop the hatred amongst one another. Labels are man made so we can further divide ourselves. Note, I can only write on the Black community as they are my people, but I’m sure this struggle is within all races. And it needs to stop. Seriously. This bullshit need to come to an end. NOW!!!!

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Losing the Desire

Posted in Important Posts with tags , , , , , on 07/28/2013 by Keona-Mlh

For as long as I can remember I have always loved women. I only messed with women. From like age 7 to 16. Then I met a boy and all hell broke loose. Went down the hill from there. Apparently I don’t know how to pick a good man or a decent one, and just let bullshit happen to me instead of just walking away.

As I turned 19, I realize that men are pretty much garbage and started back dating women. Those bitches where crazy. Worse than the men. But then again they were my choices. So I dated both and just tried to see what’s going on. Most females I wanted to be with pretty much only wanted to play and go back to their man. I, on the other hand was looking for a relationship. I swear women are crazy you know.

At 25 I started losing the desire for men. It would be more of a back and forth. Some years dating both, some years dating one or the other.

Now that I’m 32 I know I am looking for females to be with for life. Which is utterly difficult because I’m poly and they just don’t understand what it means. I have two men in my life. A husband and a boyfriend. That’s more than enough dick and I’m kinda bored with it. I have a female friend, but she seems like the rest, more interested in dudes than a feminine relationship. So my boyfriend told me to go out and date. See if there is a female out there who excepts me for me and my life choices. I have a lot of friends who are happy in their poly relationship. Some living in the same home, others who don’t. They do let me know that it takes time.

I’m not looking for a female who wants a threesome or an orgy. I’m looking for a woman who wants me, is open minded and understand that I can love more than one person at a time, and understand the meaning of a honest, Open and highly communicative relationship. Intimacy is important but understanding is better.

So I think I’m going to do just that. Date. Enjoy myself and make new friendships. Life is to sort to conform to unhappiness. So I’m making my own.

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New Regiment

Posted in Important Posts with tags , , , on 07/28/2013 by Keona-Mlh

So for about a little over a week now I have been doing a new hair and face regiment. I have seborhea dermatitis and that shit is itching as hell. Of course it respond to my stress levels which is so not cool.

So my mother gave me this stuff at home. I have so many products that I am always mixing and matching trying to find the perfect one.

So what I do is shampoo my hair twice or three times a week with the medicated shampoo the dermatologist gave me, then follow it up with my Fructis Shampoo and conditioner. After that I wrap an old shirt of my husband’s around my head and let it absorb what moisture it will without squeezing it. Or I will put a towel on my head and just wrap it around to get out the excess moisture. Then I will spray on Carols Daughters Black and Vanilla leave in conditioner and massage it through my thick hair. I will then put in an oil made of olive and jojoba. After that I take a nickel size amount of Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Cream Enhancing Smoothie w/coconut oil, silk protein & neem oil. It rehydrated my hair after the medicated shampoo and really does wonders for my little afro. I do that everyday.

I also take the medicated shampoo and use it as a face wash because my dermatitis is on my face as well. After I rinse my face off I put on some pure coconut oil and viola. My skin has looked better in a couple weeks than in the years of dealing with doctors.

I use coconut oil because I’m allergic to lavender. Which sucks because I can smell it, and drink it but not have it on me.

Either way I switch out the oils when I run out and I’m always making new products that are right for me so stick around for more info.

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